Holding a crying baby in one hand whilst cooking dinner on the hob, whilst answering a younger child’s maths questions, whilst thinking what after school club is on today, whilst boiling the kettle for the babies milk, whilst keeping an eye on the bottle steriliser, whilst thinking about what needs to go in the baby bag, feeling the heaviness and the smell of the nappy, whilst watching the time, whilst missing phone call – again!
Fill your life and your journal with positive people and experiences. Then learn, read and aspire. Find your inner hero. Who would you like to be? Who is inspiring you? Get a life coach to support and to cherish your every tiny victory. Get a business coach to help you get your plans of the ground. Life is a school so never stop learning. Nothing can prevent you from achieving one small victory everyday.
Some days we are more productive than others, some days we feel great and feel like we are walking in the sunshine. Things are just working out, creativity flows and productivity is outstanding. Why? Perhaps it was a particularly restful night and we got off on the right foot. When the alarm sounds it felt like a call to action. Im not sure why exactly but it just is. Today was productive day for me.
Today is a good day for me to look around myself and to be thankful. Thankful for the mess - it means I have kids. Thankful for the numerous dishes I have to clean- means Im not alone. Thankful for the cleaning I have to do- it means I have roof over my head- my home. I love my life. Im in my comfort zone in my life. Thankful for all the people in my life- it means I went out to meet all of them.
I consciously remember my mum since I was about 3 years old. I would do anything for my mum’s cuddles and kissess🙂 One kiss could take away all the pains… Her hand stroking my hair would make everything in the world right. She was my everything: friend, supporter, nurse, teacher, friend, buddy and big sister. I could hear her voice: ” Maryanko- you are such a smart girl”, or she would say to me: ” You are such a strong girl- I know you can do it”.
This lady could not work out her internet connection and needed wifi to fill in an application form, that she bashed on the table as she sat down. She spoke briefly in a harsh and angry manner. We started chatting and I did help her of course. Finally her connection issues were sorted out. She relaxed a little and then suddenly she said that she cant waste any time. She has no time for it.
As we grow and develop in our early childhood we develop our own perception of ourselves; the version we feel comfortable with. Or is it the version of ourselves that we don’t like, yet we don’t have enough strength to change it? We form our opinion about ourselves based on tbe opinions of our parents, teachers, friends, relatives, etc. We create responding patterns to our outside world. We create that internal image of ourselves that we carry on to be our internal mirror.
Every Mum and Dad are heroes to me. The duties of loving care of running a household and taking care of kids. On one hand - everyone is doing it, so why is it so heroic? Ask your kids. Do they think that mum and dad are their heroes? I would like to start new trend - celebrating parenthood. So welcome to my new series of blogging about stress free and happy parenthood.
Don’t be afraid to loose, instead be afraid not able to rebuild your life. Jim Ron had two millions, lost it all then rebuilt himself and how has much more. Its not what you have- its who you are: Healthy happy and content as well as being in the keep growing zone. So – dont get attached to money!!! Get attached to building your dream, loving every day and doing what you do best.